The Shit I Dont Like

I know its been a while since I wrote serious blog so I decided to do one today. I was in the shower last night and it came to me. And I decided to name it “The Shit I Don’t Like”. This blog stems from some shit that is going on in my personal life. I will share part of it with you and then you can read the rest in my up and coming issue of Choclate City Magazine. 

Now men if you get offended from this blog then you are one of the men that fit into this category and you need to work on you. Don’t take it as I’m bashing men because I’m not. I’m just calling how I see it. Now most of us have fucked some one and had a kid by them. When we were together shit was good. But all good things must come to an end. Some times shit can end on a good note and other times the shit hit’s the fan. 

Men at first yall will start out taking care of yall responsibilities and then yall fall the fuck off. You stop getting your kids. The money you use to send gets smaller and small till yo ass stop sending shit period.  You make sure your shit is on point and you still do you. You start dating a new chick that’s in your ear and stay in your fucking pockets. She got your ass turned up that you cant think straight. So you start slipping on what you need to do. Now here is your baby mama, the chick that held you down when you didn’t have shit and stuck out the bad times with you. She did what she had to do to make sure yall was alright. So when you got back on your feet, you handled your handle. She never asked you for more than she needed so you didn’t mind maintaining home. 

Now when yall break up, you forget where the fuck you came from. Now your riding around cashing out and acting brand new. Now you are not providing for your kid or kids because you are on some other shit. Now your ex steps up her game and does what she has to do to maintain her and her family. Now you see and hear how your ex is getting down and now it’s a problem. You want to put her down and talk shit because she has taken her destiny into her own hands. Why are you talking shit because she chose to get out and make money instead of being fucked up because you aint breaking bread? Why are you trying to find fault in the way she is making her ends meet? If she is being a good mother and making sure your kids have what they need and they aint in harms way, who in da fuck are you to judge her? Now that’s the shit I don’t like. 

Men you guys need to understand that a good woman will never stay down for long. If you she carried shit when yall was together, what makes you think she wont do it after your ass is gone? Woman are natural survivors. We adapt and over come. No all women are like that, just like all men are like the ones I’m writing about in this blog. I just want yall to know the same chick yall dog the fuck out. The next man will love, cherish and honor her and the responsibilities she brings into the relationship. And yes that includes your kinds. A real woman never stays down for long. Just hope that when she finds her way, she and your kids forgive you for being a fuck nigga. 

Like I said in the beginning, if you feel some kind of way after reading this blog, then maybe you the man I’m describing. For all the real men that take care of your responsibilities after the relationship is over and done, I salute you. 

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