I was asked to write this blog a long time ago by a good friend of mine from Ny. Sorry it took me so long to write this. A lot of times we are in relationships and sometimes our mates tend to stray and cheat. Now the question is which is worse, them fucking someone or performing oral sex?
I have been with men that cheated back in the day. I don’t tolerate that shit now. But it’s a hurtful thing to deal with on any level. For me I could deal with him fucking another chick verses him eating her pussy. Reason I say that is oral sex is very personal and intimate. I aint trying to kiss my man after his ass has eaten another chicks pussy. Only exception is if we are having a threesome and we are sharing. I love to kiss my man and just the thought of tasting another woman’s juices on his lips just pisses me off. Now some people may feel differently and that’s okay. That’s what makes life interesting.
Penetration is bad also but it’s a matter of how you look at it. If he is wearing a rubber its not that bad. At least the fucker is practicing safe sex. When he is eating pussy, there isn’t anything protecting his tongue. Fucking isn’t personal, making love is, along with eating pussy. I would rather my man fuck the shit out of a chick any day. And depending on what kind of mood Im in when I find out, I might have him fuck the chick again just so I can watch. Im just a freak like that.
Now when it comes to the man, it’s a totally different subject. Men don’t want us to do shit. That’s the double standards them mutha fuckers have. Most men I asked the question said they could deal with penetration more so than oral. Men lose their mind when they find out their woman has cheated. But if they sense that she has sucked someone else’s dick, all hell will break loose. In their mind they think we are doing all the nasty freaky tricks we use on them with someone else. And then if penetration is exposed, then they want to know what positions the other guy fucked you in. Men take us getting fucked doggy style personal.
So its safe to say that most people agree that if their mate cheated, they can handle the penetration more so than oral. Putting your mouth on someone is very intimate. We use oral sex as a way to express our deepest feelings for our mate. When I suck my man’s dick, its to take him to the next level and blow his fucking mind. Remember my head game is a felony. Lol Now If your mate is the type of person that goes around sucking or eating everything, then it wouldn’t really matter what they did when they cheat. And if that’s the case, then you might want to let that cheating ass person go.
We all are grown and can make decisions that right for us. Hopefully you wont have to deal with situations like this on the regular. But if you have a cheating mate, then give them a dose of their own medicine. Go out cheat and make sure you give the other person the best oral sex ever. Then come home kiss your mate and say check mate.
The articles I write are written from the heart. I am completely honest in my sexuality and sexual experiences. My goal is to make everyone comfortable enough to try their fantasies at least once. There is nothing wrong about being freaky. Just always stay true to yourself.
Join Choc Mami's
Private Club 18+ on SocialParody.com