Now it’s Choc Mami’s turn to answer about how she feels about Women’s Month:
How does it feel being an independent woman doing your own thing in 2012?
It actually feels good being able to do my own thing. I have had a lot of diversions in my life and I never dreamed I would be where I am right now. I feel like this is my season and everything I’m doing is already in my book of life. So I have no choice but to keep on achieving greater things and remaining independent.
What motivates you to help others?
My motivation is I was told I was too old to do adult radio entertainment and no one believed in me let alone helped open any doors for me. So I created my own lane and ran with it. I started everything after the age of 40. I feel like I am the role model for women wanting to pursue their dreams late in life. I go extra hard because people have put up an age barrier and it makes it harder for women my age to be taken seriously. And I love when women tell me how proud they are of me and they wish they had the courage to follow their own heart. So as long as God give me life I will continue to be motivation and inspiration to all of the women over the age of 40.
March is Women's month. How does that make you feel being honored?
I feel like anytime a woman is honored it’s an accomplishment. I feel we should be honored every damn day. We do so much in life and a lot of it goes unnoticed. Behind every man and behind the scenes is a good woman holding everything down. We are a vital part of everything going on in the world. Life started through us and that’s a very strong statement right there. Women hold so many families and businesses together. I feel everyday our worth increases. It’s just taking people a while for it to register.
Do you feel that it’s harder for a woman to prove herself in the business world?
It’s very hard for a woman to prove herself because we are living in a male dominated world. Men have called the shots for so long until they feel that we will never be their equal. I think that’s why I go so hard when it comes to my rights and enlightening women. We have to the power to do so much in life. We just need to open our eyes and take every good opportunity and manipulate that bad ones to our advantage!
As women we get this a lot, men feeling the need to test you with sexual advances to get certain doors opened.
How do you deal with that type of negativity?
I deal with that kind of fuckery a lot. And me being the type of person I am, I let a man know real quick that dick isn’t a motivating factor in my life. Everything thing I have accomplished, I have done it with relying on my brain power and the fact that I have good communication skills and being smart as hell. I pride myself on waking up and looking in the mirror and loving what I see. I can’t allow a man to be able to pull strings or call shots because I fucked him to get ahead. Because once you fuck once, you will have to keep on doing it for those doors to stay open. I will continue to struggle until I have paid my dues and God blesses me abundantly. Men approach me all the time with business opportunities and then when they throw dick into the equation and that's when I tell them to miss me with that bullshit.
What words of advice do you have for other women wanting to start their own business or doing their hearts desire?
I would say do your research and make sure it’s a good fit. Make sure you have the time to invest in yourself to productive and effective. Come up with a way to be original and stand out from the rest of the people doing what you are doing. Always create your own lane and make people drive to it how you want them to.
Do you consider yourself a role model and why?
Yes I do. The reason is because I’m not afraid to open my life up and share my past demons and present joys with women from all walks of life. I feel that I'm a role model because I’m a survivor of molestation and rape and I over came it to have a healthy sexual relationship. I learned how to channel all the negativity that happened in my life and find a happy medium. I spoke openly and freely about my sexuality to help other women to gain sexual confidence. I want to be a mouth piece for all women that have been victimized so that they can reach deep within themselves to have healthy relationships and sexual relations. I love the fact that I have been allowed the opportunity to give open and honest opinions about sex. You should never be afraid to express yourself sexually or in any other manner for fear of what people will think. No one can judge you nor does anyone know what you have been through. Once a person have walked in my shoes and endured all the hell and pain I have been through then they might be able to say a little something. But even then I still wouldn’t care. As long as God gives me breath and the outlet to speak up on being sexually open and advising women how to please themselves along with their mate, then I will continue to be a role model for every woman that wants to bring her inner freak out. So let's all be freaks together.
What advice would you give other women?
Don’t ever let anyone undermine your self worth; you have been someone ever since you were conceived. Remember that you were created to be beautiful inside and out. Always hold your head up and never let anyone still your joy. This is for all of my sisters that have been victims of abuse whether it was sexual or domestic. Let go and let God. You're a survivor for a reason and you can do anything you set your mind too. Trust me because I am a survivor of all the above and I took my life back and I’m stronger than ever. I f I could do it, so can you. I love you and happy women's month. We deserved this special month!
I would like to thank PM Wear for the 2 beautiful outfits they sent me for product placement in Choclate city Magazine. After the shoot was over, in reviewing the pictures i would say i look damn good in their line. Thank you for the opportunity to share your line with my Choclate City family.
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I was pleased when @MassageTherapis hit me up on tweet about sending me a t-shirt. i had no idea it would be a t-shirt i could wear as a dress. I took the opportunity to put it on after a photo shoot and take a picture and tweet so all of my fans could see the beautiful gift he sent me. I even got a key chain. Thank you Roderick.
This show was along time coming. I had been going back and forth with Drag-On aka Hell Boy Elroy. I have been a big ass fan of his years. And to finally have the opportunity to have him ride da choclate wave and an honor. I always start out my shows with some crazy sexual knowledge. I was talking about when a man aint taking care of home. A woman should not be fucking her toy more than her man. So that was one of the topics we had on the table. Then Drag-On comes on the line and gets caught in the subject. I ask him should I let my man go if I’m fucking my toy more than him and he was like stick it out. Then when I flip the script and shoot a slick comment at him, that shit changed real quick. It was on after that.
There were a lot of his fans listening in and was shooting questions for him to answer. We talked how he got into the industry and what motivated him. We talked about his alter ego Hell Boy ElRoy. He talked about working with Ruff Ryders, DMX, The Lox and Swiss Beatz. We talked about the new Ruff Ryder mixtape that Dj Khaled had dropped. He was like when he like RR he left them with over 60 verses and he guess they was putting them to good use. He showed a mature side when talking about his daughter and the fact when he wasn’t out there wilding out. He has a seed to think about. Judging from the way his was smiling thru his words that Melanie was the love of his life. He has motivation to make a big difference in da industry.
He has a mixtape series called “The Crazies” which highlights his lyrical skills along with other industry artist. He dropped some serious knowledge on how New York the throne of rapping with the south came and took over. When broke down the reasoning behind mixtapes, it made a lot of sense. We talked about groupie moments and how he gets nervous when he performs or acts. We touched on the subject of his up and coming acting projects. Which opened up the door for his ass to turn the tables on me. Everyone that has ever been on my show or listened to it knows I’m good for putting then in the hot seat. Well Drag-On had no problems turning da tables on my choclate ass. He suggested that we make a porn movie together and my ass was speechless. My co-host and fans didn’t help matters at all. They are truly excited about the thought of seeing me and Drag-On fucking. Hell I’m kinda excited my damn self. Its going to be called “The Crazies” part 5. And I can promise you that the chemistry will be there for real and sparks will be flying all over the place just like on the show. We will keep you guys updated once we can decide on a date. But in the meantime, make sure you follow @HellBoyElRoy1 and add him on face book . This is his official page and his fan page is coming soon. Drag-On's Official Facebook
Please feel free to check out The Crazies mixtape series The Crazies part 1 The Crazies part 2 The Crazies part 3
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This show was crazy as fuck. I had Murphy Lee back on the wave talking about this new mixtape “Mr Winter Time, I’m Cold” hosted by Dj Sir Thurl. Then you had my crazy ass on the air telling all kinds of Choc Mami secrets about my past life as a house wife. Lmao It was my first show since I got my ass banned off of BlogTv. I wrote they ass back and said I would keep my damn clothes on and the gave me my room back. So you know I behaved myself.
I started out talking about the normal sex stuff. Then Scottie Mac from IMM Radio called in and was speechless and the subject matter. Yall know I give it up raw and uncut every single time. We got on the subject about men wanting chicks to suck their dick and then they don’t wanna kiss her afterwards. Wtf? I don’t play that shit. If I suck your dick, I’m kissing you. I feel like if men do that, then something is wrong with yall and you just don’t wanna say something. We were wilding out on the air with Black Cancer from Grind Hard Radio. Then my beautiful co-host Caprice popped up and it got crazier. We talked about so much that night. I’m not about to got word for word, you will just have to listen to the show and learn some stuff from me and my supporting cast.
Then my expected guest popped up and it was on from there. Murphy Lee was a trooper. We talked about his mixtape. It has 19 hard ass tracks on it and I am loving it. The rappers on this project with him made this mixtape a well put together project. I was very impressed with the song he has with Trey Songz “How I Shine” will fuck you up. I would have never thought about those 2 on a song. Good combination as well as the song with Gucci Mane. I am going to play the mixtape in its entirety on my Saturday show. Murphy is such a humble dude that you cant help but love him and his movement. Plus he is a serious ass business man with Freaky Muscato and AirPlay air fresheners. He is a firm believer that you gotta have a hustle aside from the music career. He loves his fans, listeners and supporters. And a quick way to piss him off is to refer to them as groupies. He takes the time to speak to his followers when they tweet him. He is very active with young kids with making movies to keep them in school. Im not about to do verbatim about the interview. Yall asses need to listen to the show and ride da wave for yourself. Make sure you follow him @Murphylee and visit www.murphyleeucme.com. For you wine lovers visit www.drinkfreaky.com. And to hear his new mixtape by clicking on the following links http://t.co/WNOQ5Jd http://t.co/YtHPiKN bit.ly/yV3GnZ
This show was crazy as hell. It was one of those shows that will have you laughing and stroking your dick at the same time. I swear I don’t know where some of the shit comes from that comes out of my damn mouth. All I know is I am a freaky ass chick that aint afraid to handle her business in da bedroom with my man. The show started out on a good note. I was sipping on some Peach Ciroc and I came out da gate talking shit. I played a few of my favorite songs and kicked dome sex education 101 Chocmami style. It was t shirt and panties night so I had to dress the part. I love taking my clothes off on my show for my fans. They get a chance to see how shapely my body is.
I was extremely crunk for this show. Chingy was scheduled to come on the show. He has a new mixtape dropping and I had the single he is pushing from that project. The song is called “Let It go”. He was running late so my new co-host was on the line and we were having some freaky ass conversation when Chingy called in. It was a pleasant beginning. Once we played the first song we talked about the beat and how the track came into development. Then we talked about the song that gave him his start “Right Thurr”. It was funny as hell because he ass was rapping while I played it and he was feeling it. My daughter has been mocking him talking about “da pork chop” verse. She was on the show listening and laughing her ass off. We had a nice vibe. Then I addressed the tranny situation and he answered it. I didn’t get to ask all the questions I wanted to but you have to listen to the show to hear the other shit my crazy ass said during the interview. Over all this show was good as hell. My ass even managed to get banned off blog tv with 4 minutes left in the show. www.blogtalkradio.com/chocmami/2012/03/03/choclate-city-radio-with-chingy
My sexy choclate ass is always getting banned from something. I guess Im too hott for their server. Lmao If you missed the show with Chingy make sure you go back and listen and enjoy laughing your ass off. This radio host shit is growing on me. Make sure you follow him @ChingyJackpot
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